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Updates on my mother.

She was released from the hospital a bit over week.. week and a half ago and sent home. She lasted at home for 4 days before they had to move her to a Rehabilitation hospital because she couldn't move at home and was in excrutiating pain.

She was at the rehab hospital for 4 days before they sent her to the Emergency Room last night for fluids because she was dehydrated, was refusing food and constantly had the dry heaves. They did a CT scan because they were concerned about bowel blockages. When I speak with her, her speech is slurred and unintelligible. We're both frustrated with the inability to communicate, and she's taken to just shoving the phone at my father to act as a go-between.

My younger brother (who is a nurse) said that the infection has moved into the bolts holding her knee immobile, and that they are attempting to move up the date when those are removed. It was to be the end of July, he's hoping they can move it up a week.

He goes on to report that she's been on 3 antibiotics (although he only knew about vancomycin), and the infection is 'still bad'.

Right now I'm in limbo. I am having flashbacks of when my grandmother went into the hospital 6 years ago. The family kept the severity of her illness from me until they called to tell me she was dying. She was gone within 12 hours of that phone call.

My mother is 72 years old. She has been in poor health for a long time, and has spoken with pleasure of 'when it'll all be over and I can move on. Don't grieve for me' for the past several years. So I have the very real fear that she'll give up and let herself go.

I am now on standby, credit card in hand. Matthew (my brother) is supposed to report back to me this morning on her condition; he and his girlfriend (also a nurse) have been trying to keep tabs on her where my father could not. If she worsens, I will be catching the next flight to Louisiana.

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gre7g
Jul. 5th, 2012 01:37 pm (UTC)
Eeks. Best wishes!
points
Jul. 5th, 2012 04:21 pm (UTC)
*Tight hugs*
shelbystripes
Jul. 5th, 2012 05:42 pm (UTC)
*hugs*</p>

I'm here for you if I can help at all.

tuftears
Jul. 5th, 2012 07:09 pm (UTC)
Yeep! *hugs*
skorzy
Jul. 5th, 2012 09:41 pm (UTC)
*BIG HUG!*
ben_mouse
Jul. 5th, 2012 10:59 pm (UTC)
You and your family are in my thoughts, Genet. I am sorry to hear about all of this, and hope for a positive outcome.
doomsey
Jul. 6th, 2012 12:17 am (UTC)
If you can, just go. At worst, she will get better. Is that really such a bad outcome?
atara
Jul. 6th, 2012 02:10 am (UTC)
*hug*
frostyw
Jul. 6th, 2012 03:00 am (UTC)
Erf. I'm keeping her in my thoughts for you, hon. *offers hugs*
was1
Jul. 6th, 2012 03:41 am (UTC)
(*hug*) My thoughts are with you, your mother and your family Lydia.
nekosensei
Jul. 6th, 2012 03:59 am (UTC)
Sending you and your family good thoughts! And I'm going to echo what doomsey said. Family comes first! You should definitely go see her if you can!

*hugs*

lady_curmudgeon
Jul. 6th, 2012 04:38 pm (UTC)
Damn. I'm so sorry to read this!! Sounds pretty horrible. :(

Feren and I are sending our best healing vibes and thoughts to your Mom, and soothing, calming thoughts/vibes to you. It's so damned nerve wracking when loved ones become so ill, and it's only compounded in your case by the physical distance between you and your folks.

We're currently at CONvergence, but I do have my phone on me at all times pretty much, so if you need me I'm a text or googletalk away...

Hang in there, friend. Much love coming your way as well...

(((((hugs)))))
sayh
Jul. 6th, 2012 05:17 pm (UTC)
:(

When your a kid you want to grow older, since it's so fun to be older. But when your older, all the older ones you care about start to pass away.

*hugs* from us, and hope you will be ok.
arphalia
Jul. 6th, 2012 07:18 pm (UTC)
Lots of love and hugs and prayers for your mother, you and the family. <3
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